Sunday, November 5, 2017

I Shall Be All Anxiety

Like many Shelockian Twitter conversations, Chris Redmond started it.

Many of us shared our own short versions of our first nights in Sherlockiana in response to Chris's tweet Friday night.  I won't go too far into mine, as I've already shared it on I Hear of Sherlock a few years ago.  My favorite part of the conversation was one Sherlockian telling us that he ripped the seat of his pants TWICE on his first night.  That makes for a memorable evening!

This conversation got me thinking.  Is social anxiety a common feature of Sherlockians?  We are a literary bunch, so introversion wouldn't be out of character.  On the other hand, we are very sociable with one another at our gatherings.

So, why are there so many stories about us being nervous our first time?

And for some of us, it's not just the first time we meet.  I've written about how much I love my local scion, but there are some days where I'm all nerves on the way to a meeting.  Social anxiety sucks.

But it makes me wonder if this is a larger phenomenon among the younger generation of Sherlockians and people as a whole.  In the 50's, or the 80's, or anytime before the internet, really, if people weren't comfortable in social situations, they mostly stayed home.  Now we have a culture where we can be connected, but still isolated.  But when our connections are based in a common interest, it's a natural step to want to meet with others who share your interests.  And that is where people are stepping out of their comfort zones. 

Events like 221BCon in Atlanta never would have existed before the internet.  People from all over the country descend on Georgia each year, many times only knowing others as their online personas.  My bet would be there are more than a few attendees there that would admit to having social anxiety.

Before the internet connected us all, Sherlockians were connected through newsletters.  And the granddaddy of them all is the Baker Street Journal.  I assume that the Baker Street Journal had plenty of subscribers that never attended a scion meeting, much less the big gathering in New York every January. 

But this is a new day and age.  Now, we can get our BSJ in the mail, participate in Ashley Polasek's #221Movie tweetalong with her college students, spend hours reading on the new, upload your own fan fiction to AO3, and all other kinds of Sherlockian activities from our home.  But it's those real life, human connections that are so great.

So, even if you're a member of the old guard or a millennial and you suffer from social anxiety, get out there and spend time with other Sherlockians in real life.  Because, for every story of someone ripping their pants in the Twitter conversation, there were a dozen stories of people being welcomed with open arms to a community of people who all share the same interest, even if it is a little out of our comfort zones sometimes. 


  1. I have only been to one major convention and that was almost 20 years ago. I have been to a few society meetings in another part of the country and I did feel nervous and anxious before I spoke. I was-lucky the Host was a friend who kidded me into relaxing first. But that is right. Social Anxiety sucks.

    1. Is there a local scion close to where you live now?

  2. i am not sure who all these people sitting at home in the early days of BSJ were supposed to be, but even in the 60s and early 70s, it was difficult to even find the BSJ.
    There was no big gathering in NY. Pre-Internet, there was the BSI Dinner, the Gillette Luncheon, and a cocktail reception at Dr, Wolff's apartment. And that was it. Under 100 people.
    Starting in the mid-70s, add about a dozen ASH, growing to about 80 people by the mid-80s. Women's admittance saw an end to the ASH Dinner after a couple of years, then the Baskerville Bash. Add-on events of a public or private nature have been burgeoning since.
    This was never a convention nor meant to be. 221B, with its multitrack presentations and cosplay is a different way of Sherlocking.
    It's invisible as a phenomenon to many older Sherlockians who continue to exist with the province of pulp. When I mentioned some years ago that there is a generational and cultural divide, I meant it. There still is, but we are seeing some nice young people pour into NY in January, and sinecif them come back. This is a good thing.

    1. My point was, I'm sure that the BSJ had more subscribers than people who made it to New York or even their local scion meetings. Many people found out about the wider world of Sherlockiana through Baring-Gould's annotated. My hypothesis is that plenty of people learned about the wider world of Sherlockians but never ventured out into it because of social anxiety.

    2. You don't have data to support that. The people who made it to NY usually but not always founded a smallish scion at home. It wasn't social anxiety keeping them at home. The only real events for years were the BSI Dinner and the Gillette Luncheon, which was very small. One only got to BSI via invitation and the Luncheon if you happened to be in town and knew about it. In the mid to late 60s, a handful of junior Sherlockians began to show up. Cheers, SE Dahlinger

  3. That should read: and some of them come back.

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    S.E. Dahlinger